Christian dating discussion topics
What are times you felt closest to/furthest from God? When do you remember first having a personal relationship with Christ? Was there a spiritual mentor you looked up to when you were younger? What is one thing likely getting in the way of your full potential in Christ? The usual "how was your day" often results in a simple "fine" or "okay." These questions can help expound and get deeper into the other person's daily life. Start with a question and let them expound with the answer. What would you do if you had to live on a mountain without warning? I broke these down into 10 basic themes to help you start thinking about your own questions to bring up on date night. Enjoy :) Talking about favorites is an easy, fun, and neutral way to start any conversation. Talking about past memories is definitely bonding--seeing how past events have influenced them into the people they are today.
These questions can be kind of a downer, so should be used sparingly and with caution. What would you do if a tornado came toward you while you were driving? What would you do if someone broke into your home while you were there? What would we want to happen to our kids if we both died in a car accident? What would you do (with job, home, kids, etc.) if I died? If, after an accident, you were kept alive by machines, would you want me to sign a DNR? They can be a good checkpoint for our personal faith walk, or for our faith walk as a couple/family. Sometimes spiritual questions seem like they're meant to be left to Bible studies, but they easily have place in our daily conversations. It gives us the opportunity to state our passions so we can pursue them, and helps us know our significant other's passions and find ways to support and encourage them in those. However, when put on the spot, some of us aren't great at coming up with random memories, so it helps to have some questions to bring those past experiences to mind.
Finally, sometimes it's just good to find out how the other person is doing. (i.e., what is the first thing you do when you get to work? What are your favorite/least favorite parts of your day?